Diseases of the hearts & their cure

Assalamualaikum ~

"...Indeed there is in the body a piece of flesh which if it is sound then the whole body is sound, and if it is corrupt then the whole body is corrupt. Indeed it is the heart."

Bismillah , insya'Allah im gonna start reading this book given by our lovely sisters. jazakillahu khair . And insya'Allah may this book bring benefits to me and may I be in the state of istiqomah in reading knowledgable books. Ameen..

And to my observant stalkers (heheh, jgn maraaaah~) , I've no updates abt my marriage yet lah. Hehh. Don't know what to say abt us yet. Heheh. But Alhamdulillah everything is in good conditions. Just that I'm getting fatter each day, THIS IS CANNOT! (Really need to tone down on the consumption of food now. Hahaah ,like that's gonna happen right. Ok tet) 

Anyways sidetrack a little bit; 

Today I spent my afternoon with my lovely sisters, Nilam, Adilah and Sarah ! 

Went to La Marelle Cafe for lunch and the price was ....... 0.o (Sakit mata Cek) but the food is awesome! (Don't forget to say masya'Allah, hehh ,nilam remind us to say this for everything that we sees or praising something good)

Walked ard Arab street to look for Sarah wedding fabrics for nilam to sew for her. * masya'Allah! Can't believe she's getting married in a month time! May Allah eases her affairs!! Ameen! *

And as soon as the clock strike 3.30pm, well not really 3.30pm, hahah, my husband came to fetch me home . Hehehe. Was a little surprising but yeyy! Happy to see him😁 

Well that's abt it, insya'Allah will update more on my perkahwinan life Alrt dearest ppl. 

Till then, illaliqa' ❤️

P/S: my husband was kinda jealous when I send him the pic of the cakes, plus he was shocked with the price when I told him how much we've spent. Hahahahah! 

Shirk al-Asghar does not remove a person from Islaam:

 

بـسـم الله والحـمـد لله والـصلاة والـسـلام عــلى رسـول الله، وبـعـد

Allaah تعالى said:

﴿إِنَّ اللَّـهَ لَا يَغْفِرُ أَن يُشْرَكَ بِهِ وَيَغْفِرُ مَا دُونَ ذَٰلِكَ لِمَن يَشَاءُ﴾

{Verily, Allaah forgives not that partners should be set up with him in worship, but He forgives except that (anything else) to whom He pleases} [Surah al-Nisaa’ (4): 48]

Shaikh Ibn Baaz رحمه الله said:

The one who commits Shirk al-Asghar (minor Shirk), if his good deeds outweigh (the bad deeds), it is hoped that they (the good deeds) will remain. As for the verse, then the obvious is that it refers to Shirk al-Akbar (only).

Source:

 الفوائد الجلية من دروس الشيخ ابن باز العلمية (ص 23)

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The Shaikh رحمه الله was asked: Does Shirk al-Asghar removes the person from Islaam?

Answer: Shirk al-Asghar does not remove a person from Islaam. Rather, it decreases the Imaan and negates perfect Tawheed which is required from a person.

So if a person recites (the Qur’aan) for showing off or he gives charity for showing off, then his Imaan decreases and weakens and he has incurred a sin while doing this act, but he is not judged as a Kaafir.

[Majmoo` al-Fataawa Ibn Baaz (8/394)]

Summary:

1. Only that action in which Shirk al-Asghar has happened will be effected.

2. Instead of reward, sin will be recorded for him.

3. His other good deeds will not be effected, in-shaa Allaah.

4. His Imaan will decrease and weaken.

5. His Tawheed will not be perfect.

6. He is still upon Islaam.

7. Tawbah is required from him.

8. The person should not treat this as something insignificant, as small drops of water together make an ocean.

Taken via tumblr - path of the salaf

زوجي

Assalamualaikum ~

So it's been a week since I've been married. Alhamdulillah. And my husband ,ilham and I, are more than happy to be together. Heheh. 

It was hard the first time as we nvr knew abt each other background . I face challenges on how to adapt with a stranger on your bed the next morning and tolerating each behaviour. 

Was it a struggle? yes it was. With us disagreeing on things and Alhamdulillah after a week of marriage, we both got ourselves a conclusion to make this marriage works! 

It's a lot of work, but insya'Allah as the days goes by, our family will be a happy annoying loving family. Heheh.

"His lameness and his ridiculous is my lameness and ridiculous" ❤

Till then, to be continue , illaliqa' ❤

.………awkwardly

Totally speechless abt everything. 

When negative thoughts runs wild in this head, and positive thoughts running pretty low. Allahul musta'an. 

Only Allah knows what's in my heart and head speaks. Allah knows best. 

Honeystar

Assalamualaikum ~ 

This may be a little sad but here's to a little shoutout to RS girls. 

Bismillah. 

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh darlings, so ya I'm officially someone's wife(Alhamdulillah). And first and foremost, I sincerely apologise if ever I did hurt any one of you unintentionally . My kecohness cannot maintain lah . Heheh. 

And currently things might be a little different now. I won't be able to spent lots of time with you all especially with the ones I'm pretty close with :'( I love you all for the sake of Allah and nothing can replace you girls, masya'Allah ! I nvr had friends like this and Alhamdulillah Allah sent me to you girls. Will treasure all the moment how we all spent time together and insya'Allah we'll gather again as Riyadhus Salihat in Jannah ❤

*to 'Adilah, 

Assalamualaikum adilah, :') before I start, I want to say jazakillahu khair for everything ! From the first moment you introduced me abt my husband , and you were there during the taaruf, and the meeting with the mom, also my khitbah and more of it. I truly truly treasure you most cos you have been by my side since the beginning till the day I am married. Masya'Allah ! *ok I can't stop crying. Hope my husband don't wake up hearing my ugly cries* 

You were there when everyone left right after they kecoh2 amek gambar, looking at you, it's like so unbelievable to say goodbye. I couldn't ask for more but only you. You're been a wonderful sister to me. And you're always there to listen to all my awful crap and misery. 

And when the time is right, insya'Allah I'll try my fullest to be by your side , insya'Allah ! Me love you many many lah jack. Heheh. Insya'Allah the egg will nvr forget the avocado ❤❤ 

*to Kartini,

Assalamualaikum tahfiz mate ! 

First of all I'd like to say I LOVE YOU LAH CAT! Heheh. So many memories with you during tahfiz and also while on the way back. And the advices you always share. 

"Every diffuculties there is ease" 

Insya'Allah I'll not forget you lah k. Hahah. I'll still see you in tahfiz classes and pls pls motivate me k darling . Don't say cannot to me. Nnt I cry tau. Heheh. Whatever it is I still love you lah! ❤ 

And to other girls who have been supporting me all the way and sesiape yg dah engage tu, semoga Allah mempermudahkn urusan kalian. Ameen thumma ameen . Jazakumullahu khair lovelies! ❤❤

A doa for you guys before I take my leave , 

أَسْتَوْدِعُكُمُ اللهَ الَّذِي لا تَضِيعُ وَدائِعُهُ

I leave you in the care of Allah , as nothing is lost that is in His care

Ahmad 2/403, Ibn Majah 2/943. See also Al-Albani, Sahih Ibn Majah 2/133

Ok, shall go off now, hehe. Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh !

Till then, illaliqa' ❤

Part 2

Assalamualaikum ~

"Dah nak jadi pengantin Abeh bace Quran menglabar pulak!"- Kak fadhillah and ustaz Ali 

Hahahah! While reading the Quran , my mind was concentrating at the first half of the page, but upon reaching the 2nd half, my mind was abt my wedding! Hahaha. 

I'm left with 4 days till my wedding! Subhanallah ! 

*excited plus scared at the same time*

-6 months ago

Right after the engagement, everything changed. In a good way of cos! Hahah

We went through the counselling , discussing on houses and Walimah, registration for our marriage . Masya'Allah. 

Alot of good things (also bad at times) came ever since he appeared in our lives. Alhamdulillah . Allah sent me a man with knowledge which insya'Allah can guide me towards the manhaj and toward Jannah. 

As the days getting closer and closer, I felt so relief that I'm marry him . Not just marrying him , but building up our next generation together. Marrying him for the sake of Allah and him marrying me for the sake of Allah. Masya'Allah. 

Looking forward for a beautiful and fruitful future for the both of us, khair insya'Allah. 

Till then, do pray my wedding goes smoothly on ladies! illaliqa' ❤

P/S: can't say I love you yet lah. Hahaahh. Dah nikah baru can k. Hahah. 

*just hope I won't vomit or rumble in my tumble on my nikah day

Pre marriage issue

Pesanan daripada seorang ibu;

"Istiqomah di atas al-Quran & Sunnah."

Allahul musta'an . I must have gone overboard with all the 'my dream wedding day' till I forgot the ruling in Islam on the day of your nikah/Walimah. 

May Allah increase us in knowledge and may we be on the straight path. Allahumma ameen.

Putting on thick makeups won't make you pretty even on your wedding day but you'll be categories under "TABBARUJ". 

The ulama' has emphases on the topic tabbaruj. It's clear and yet we (the sisters) still choose to be westernize. Allahul musta'an. 

May He keep us away from going back to the jahiliyyah days thinking our wedding gonna be grand. 

http://youtu.be/dev3IfHy7C0

May this video benefit each one of you who'll be having their nikah/Walimah in the later time. Khair insya'Allah.